We out-of-towners complain all the time about how people don't smile, greet us with a warm "good morning," or don't really connect here in New York. We say it's a cold city. As if being warm is a kindness and pleasure we've reserved for when we go back home to visit our families for the holidays. How about we start smiling and saying "good morning," and may be see a bit of a change in the atmosphere? New York isn't that big, let's make it a place we can call home too.